12 Trusted Relationship Tips From Experts

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Respect each other's  minds

Understanding and respecting your partner's perspective is crucial for a resilient relationship, despite differing minds and disagreements.

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Disconnect to connect

"Disconnect from devices, prioritize quality time. 24-hour break for board games and cooking together. - Bonnie Winston, matchmaker."

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Get a tune-up

Annual marriage counseling, like a car tune-up, is essential. Lasting app makes it accessible, offering customized sessions on communication and more.

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Find a safe space

When both want it to work, finding common ground and language is key. Creating a safe space like 'drive time' can resolve relationship friction.

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Invest in your partner

Strong relationships thrive when based on the good in each other, inspiring growth and mutual effort. Sustainability lies in active investment, not mere pleasure or utility.

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Don't forget about you

Maintain individual activities, interests, friends before being together. Interdependence, not dependence, leads to satisfying relationships.

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Laugh it off

Laughter defuses arguments. Use humor wisely—avoid sarcasm. Self-deprecating jokes work well.

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Show gratitude

Express gratitude regularly to make your partner feel appreciated and remind yourself of the mutual support that enriches your life

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Let go of the little  things

Cousin happily married for 35 years. Secret? "Don't nitpick." Wise simplicity of his reply stays with Lisa C. from Springfield, NJ.

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Hanger is real.

"Don't have hard conversations when either person is tired or hungry," says Kelsey M. from Seattle.

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Fight right.

Fight for the relationship, not personal needs. Prioritize compromise, avoid blaming or dredging up past faults in anger.

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The more they know

"Over-communicate, especially about your relationship. Don't assume your partner fully grasps you."

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